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The taste of happiness!

海内存知己,天涯若比邻!
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做不了爱人,我们做什么!

     做不了爱人,我们做什么呢,人活这一辈子,会相遇许多人,有现实中的,也有非现实的.但往往只有那么几个特别的人,会让你终生难忘却。这仅仅的几个人,也许是你的爱人、你的知己、你最铁的朋友……而最难以释怀的,大概是曾令你最心痛又使你魂牵梦萦的那人吧。   
     这人可能是无意间偶遇的,在你没刻意准备的时刻,也许因为一个特别的名字、一盘走得很出色的棋、胡一把番数很高的麻将,从此,QQ里有了彼此的名字,聊天纪录的页数也飞快疯长,后来,有了彼此的电话、再后来…… 他和她就是这样简单地相遇,如所有通俗的偶尔。  
     他品味她的善良与聪慧,她欣赏他的优秀与坚韧现在,她已是可以倾听他私密故事的那个人了。当他悲伤,她温热的双手,轻轻托起他泪眼婆娑的脸,告诉他:“男人该坚强”;当他遭挫折将崩溃,她用心将他拥入软暖的怀中,无声慰籍他生活还有美好的一面;当他孩子般欢快蹦跳,她陪着他开心,开心得快落泪。同样,她也需要他结实的肩膀、宽厚的大手。她更需要他絮叨的叮咛、温暖的安慰、时刻的牵挂,哪怕相距多么遥远,哪怕说出的是没有实际意义的话——那些开花的话啊,都不重要,重要的是,到这个时候,一切早已变成一种心灵的默契,无须多说一个字眼。他们会在同一秒凝望午夜星空,看月上树梢,看月立中宵,看月沉天际,皎洁的月光里,想起彼此,想起对方带给自己的快乐、想起对方的真诚与执著、想起坐在摇椅上一起慢慢变老的幸福……   
     但是,现实是残酷的。这样的感情注定是无法相交的两条线,只能是一种凌驾于爱情与友情之间的另类情感。当爱走到这一步,所有曾经的幻想都变成相思的苦难,爱在理智与现实间不停搏斗、不停挣扎。  
每一天的日子,每一缕的温存,都是一种艰难的取舍。他试着去忘掉她,让她不再承受这沉重的感情折磨,也还自己一片自由空间。她面对大海,想问大海讨要答案,也试着去解散自己平淡的婚姻。但他们,仍逃脱不了残酷现实的折磨。   
终于,当两个人都精疲力尽时,最后的选择到了静静调整好彼此的心情,小心翼翼问对方,  
“做不了爱人,我们做什么?”  
“做知己吧!”她对他说。  
“不,我承受不了那份永久的牵挂与思念,没有一对男女能做好一辈子的知己。”他轻轻摇头。  
“那做情人吧!”她又说。  
“不,因为你是善良的女人,尽管我们的感情没有阳光的青睐,但这样暧昧的词语是对我们的玷污。” 他狠狠摇头。   
“那做兄妹吧!”她叹息。  
“不,我们的爱早已超越了兄妹间的亲情。会有哥哥用如此柔情爱意的目光凝视妹妹的吗?我不会做这样的哥哥!”他拼命摇头。  
“那做朋友吧。我只能给你这个了。”她哽咽。  
“不,在我的心里,你早已经是我的爱人了!以朋友的身份,我无法面对你和你的另一半,也无法想像你和你另一半在一起的缠绵……我无法抗拒和我的另一半同床共眠的时刻不去想你!”他痛苦地低下头。  
“唉,我们还是做仇人吧!”  
他最后对她说。“既然我们都改变不了自己的命运,此生注定没有相互厮守的幸福,与其这样刻骨地念着、痛着,不如……不如仇恨地远离对方的线,永远找寻不到对方,也许会是最好的解脱……”  
     她惊呆了。他哭了。 无法想像,最后能给予对方的,竟然是这样的结局!  
但是,他们明白,也只有这样选择,才可以保留住彼此的那份善良与纯洁,也不再会去伤害更多的人。  从此,他们消失了。没有相互的祝福,就这样静静地,消失在茫茫的人海中,消失在彼此爱的视线中。

    两副凡人柔弱的肩膀,承受不了另类的爱情!

  爱就是如此——不堪承受生命之重!   

    做不了爱人我们做什么呢?

馒头的N种吃法穷人的穷过法



  最近穷疯了,没钱买饼吃,只好吃馒头。
  想吃饼的时候,把馒头拍扁了当饼吃。
  想吃面的时候,拿梳子把馒头梳几下当面吃。
  想吃冰淇淋的时候,把馒头放在冰箱里冻冻再吃。
  想吃海鲜的时候,把馒头放在鞋子里面闷闷再吃 。
  想吃饼干的时候,把馒头烤脆了再吃。
  想吃方便面的时候,把馒头从下面掏空,再把掏出来的馒头渣放在里面,用水泡着吃。
  想吃肉的时候,把馒头捏成猪的形状再吃。
  想吃火锅的时候,把馒头切成片,放在开水里,捞着吃。
  想吃香肠的时候,把馒头搓成条再吃。
  想吃螃蟹的时候,把馒头从上面掀开再吃。
  想吃汉堡的时候,把馒头包在纸里,再把纸打开,再吃。
  想吃香蕉的时候,把馒头皮剥了再吃。
  想吃鸡腿的时候找根筷子穿着馒头吃。
  想吃包子时,把馒头瓤抠出来再塞进去吃。
  想吃洋葱的时候,在馒头里放点芥末再吃。
  想吃麦片的时候,把馒头捏碎,在压扁,再泡水吃。
  想吃西餐时,把馒头放盘子里,再拿刀叉切成片

《画皮》之感!

   《聊斋志异》中的《画皮》本是借鬼喻人,想要戳破世间一切阴毒之心的绮丽表象。  但不知为何,除了1966年鲍方导演版的《画皮》以外,无论是93版《画皮之阴阳法王》中的女鬼尤枫还是今日的狐妖小唯,甚至是李翰祥的风月版《画皮》,导演们都无一例外地要在那个身披人皮的恶鬼身上构建出一个无奈、甚至无辜的女子形象,她们或者并没有作恶,或者有着各种样的理由,而且这些理由也无一例外地与爱有关。
  小唯——周迅:
  她是妖,她是异类,她要用活人的心来滋润自己那艳丽的皮相;她以为自己给王生的是爱,她以为她可以得到王生的爱,她以为王生是爱她的;但是最后,她也用她曾经最为珍视的不老容颜换取了他的重生,因为,她现在珍视的已经是另外一样东西了。


佩容——赵薇:
  她的人生没有什么缺陷:出身富贵,贵为将军夫人,生活平稳充实……但最重要的是,她嫁给了自己所爱之人,而这人也真心地爱着她。她笃信着爱,甚至膜拜着爱,所以当爱要她付出的时候,她可以不惜一切代价。


王生——陈坤:
  在遇到小唯之前,他一直都对自己的感情确信不疑——妻子佩容就是他今生挚爱,他心如止水。但是小唯,这个意外救下的陌生女子,搅乱了这一池水,变成了漩涡,一直把他拖向心底的黑洞之中。犹疑、困惑、纠缠不休,左与右的拉锯战里,他没办法对妻子说“我始终如一”,也没办法对小唯说“我只爱你”。


夏冰——孙俪:   最简单、最直接、最无所畏惧的除魔侠,所以,才能成为这一片阴霾里最闪亮的一点光,终于照亮了那个人躲在阴影里面的暗淡的心。

Simple love

       What is the meaning of happiness » A hearts sweet satisfaction! The normal life everywhere, and perhaps a smile, perhaps a nod. Simple, warm people's hearts! Well-being need to sense, to pass. Each side to have a fraternity, only the expression of different ways. Happiness can only motive to understand!

       For me, are looking for perhaps that the sweet smile, that recognized the nod, that warm embrace. How many times in a Dream, to firmly grasp the will have far apart. Do not know what waiting for the dream of what! Everything is so confused! Time will never reversed, maybe I went too far, like a child, in very small when away from home, lost the direction. Do not know their past, future, efforts to find a direction to go home! Perhaps the hope is too high, so will be very tired. Xinruzhishui, how many people can do pull!

       Short-term happiness, with enough!

Day and day!

      Jiangnan the rainy season has finally passed, some time ago, all day long day, it is not convenient on a bad mood with a thoroughly. High-temperature hot every day now, really depressing. Do not have the slightest feeling better. For a long time without serious wrote what, is not the time or interest. When sitting in front of a computer, the feeling Hao Lei, a lot of things have hearts want to find the answers and want to escape. Reality and dreams are always contradictory. I do not want to be indulged in a person's world can not extricate themselves. There are too many to be the Fangbu Xia, is the most difficult Shexia not Shihuai. Reality does not allow ah! There are too many problems to solve, too many things to deal with, like what the future is unpredictable, want to change only on their own ....... all Suiyuan bar, only to prove to be time!
 

Charles Wang

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Charles Wangwrote:
阳光总在风雨后,好好坚持吧!
3 Apr.
用心去感受, around the little Didi!
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